Monday, November 10, 2008

Africa, Part II

We arrived to the Karibuni Lodge around 7pm on Friday night. We were greeted by the owners, Theresa & Ibrahim, Alex, and Whitney. We were all very tired from the road trip and also quite hungry. This night would be the first of several delicious meals made for us by Ibrahim.

We were all very excited to be heading to the Challenge Farm the next morning!!! When I woke up, I was able to actually just sit back and reflect on the beauty of our surroundings.


Amy, Donna, Nancy, Amy, and Kristen's "Villa" :-) So cute.


The excitement that was building within while on the way to the farm was unbearable. Whitney had taken a few of us ahead of "Mama Cheri". We waited on the side of the road until Cheri could enter with us. Whitney had already told us how excited the children were to know that we were all coming, and they always look forward to the times when Mama Cheri can come home to them!

Finally, we are all ready to head down the final stretch of the road leading to the farm. We start honking horns, and then I see children emerge from buildings running with HUGE smiles on their faces. I immediately started crying. I was trying so hard to not cry! But, it was a happy cry. A cry of thanks and gratitude to God for calling me to go and be with the children and staff at Challenge Farm.

Arriving at the farm, Mama Cheri's van first

Meeting the children


I had a few children come up to me and say, "Kristen!". I had sent this picture of me ahead of time so the kids would know what I looked like. Then, I found it blown up into an 8x10 on the wall in the dining hall!


We gathered and went into the dining hall/chapel/classroom/everything room. We had introductions and the kids danced. I LOVED watching them dance! I have video that I will post later.

Meet Sara. She is the youngest resident on the farm. She captured my heart that very first day.


The kids sing to us


Some boys dancing!


This is Jackson. You will lots of him in my posts. The best dancer! Great kid.


Sara, Jackson, and Esther


Esther, Martha, and Sara


With my new friends


Mark and friends


Esther- I *LOVE* this picture of her.


Sweet poses


HELLO!!!


With Sweet Lilian


Beautiful Ruth


Such a beautiful day.


The first day at the farm was full of excitement, introductions, and fun. The kids LOVED my sunglasses and camera. I came home with over 800 pictures taken and maybe a quarter of them were actually taken by me! It was such a great day! We couldn't wait to return to them and have chapel with them the next day!

***To Be Continued...***



Sunday, November 09, 2008

Argh, headaches.

I have had a headache practically every day since I returned home. I am really getting sick and tired of them. They are wearing me out. I slept a lot yesterday and then came home today from church and slept another few hours. Me so tired...

Saturday, November 08, 2008

Africa, finally!

Thanks Kim for such a great graphic of Kitale, Kenya!

One month ago today, I was dropping Ethan off of the fair and heading to the church to meet the team that would be traveling with me across the world to Kitale, Kenya, Africa.

L-R: John, Mark, Joe (team leader), Stan, Cheri- AKA: Mama Cheri, Fred, Stephanie, Nancy, Me, Amy, Donna. Not pictured: Amy (BFFK) and Jamey.

On the way to the church, Scott was very sweet and gave me a tiny piece of advice that meant so much to me. He said, "Try everything". I thought that he was talking about food, but he was talking about the entire experience in general. After all, when will be the next time that I get to experience Africa?

The flights went smoothly. We left from Greensboro and made a quick jaunt up to Washington DC. From there it was the first long leg- to Zurich. I had my own row of two seats the entire way to Zurich, so I was able to rest some while sticking my toe socks up in the air. LOL! It was so cool to be in Switzerland, I don't care if it was only the airport!!! (But, dang- they are expensive!!!)

PLUS, I got to see the Swiss Alps!!! How cool is that? They were so incredibly beautiful from the air. Oh, and Swiss Air is the bomb. Best service ever, plus they have GREAT milk!

All I kept wanting to do, though, is yell "Reeeeee-cooo-laaaaa". hehe.

We also flew over Greece or Italy- maybe both. I just know that it was the Mediterranean.

And, it was probably the closest that I will ever be to either of those places ever again...UNLESS (LORD WILLING), I get to return to Africa someday.


Arriving into Nairobi. These nifty little tv's on the back of the seat in front of you was high tech for me. I loved the map. I found myself watching the map a lot. So I guess I can say that flight trackers are awesome.

We made it through customs without any problems. There were men outside the airport immediately wanting to help you for money. Before leaving the airport, we exchanged our money. The rate was 72 schillings to one dollar. So, I exchanged $200 for over 14 thousand schillings. Boy, did I feel wealthy!

It took us quite a while to get from the airport to our destination for the evening. The traffic in Nairobi was unreal. People walk everywhere and hope to catch a ride on a bus. The smell of diesel is profound. I had quite the headache before we got to Margaret's. But, we did finally arrive to this beautiful compound. We had pizza waiting for us when we arrived and we were all able to just relax for a while and even get on the internet to let loved ones back home know that we made it!

This was me and Amy's (bffk) studio.


Amy and I stayed up WAY late just being chatterboxes and apparently others knew it because the walls were pretty thin. SORRY.

The next day, we woke up nice and early to have breakfast and then head out on our way to Kitale. I had taken one of Ethan's blankets with me so I could snuggle with it when I was having a "missing Ethan" attack. I so, inconveniently, forgot his blanket AND my makeup bags in Nairobi. I did not realize this until the following day, but I was very lucky that Margaret is a friend of Cheri's and she mailed me back my blanket and "stuff" (as Joe so affectionately kept referring to it).

Looking around every turn we made, I was still in awe that I was actually in Africa! The thought still blows my mind. I never wanted to be there...until God had other plans for me, and I thank God that He did. The vision of poverty was apparent. But, I also saw hard-working people. Carrying water jugs on your head with a baby on your back is not abnormal there. Animals ran wild. And, I am talking baboons, donkeys, sheep, zebras...


The scenery was stunning though. I never in my wildest imagination would have thought that I would say that the scenery in Africa is beautiful!

Mark and I self-posing with Rift Valley behind us


Just me this time...it was breezy!


About half way into our trek up to Kitale, we stopped at Lake Nakuru National Park. Talk about gorgeous. Funny story...when we were getting ready to get off of the bus, the bus driver said to be sure that our windows were closed because the native, um monkeys, would find their way in to steal our stuff. Well, we all closed our windows and doors, but the bus driver left his window WIDE open. A lovely native found himself enjoying our recently purchased pretzels...


Some pictures from the game park:














And, just in case you were wondering how the restroom facilities were...

(No, I did NOT use this. There was a real toilet that was much easier on the knees- LOL!)

We left Lake Nakuru after seeing many different animals. LOTS of flamingos. We missed the lions- they were hiding. But, it was so much different seeing these animals in their natural habitat versus the zoo. I am so lucky to have been able to see such a wonder.

On the road again...WE CROSSED THE EQUATOR!



This road trip was a long one, but I am glad that we did it. I can say that I have experienced a Kenyan highway and all of its potholes. I can say that we did have to pull over on the side of the road for a potty break behind a bush. I can say that I got to arrive into Kitale, Kenya with the most unbelievable sunset of my life...




***To Be Continued...***

I'm having trouble with this



Ok, so the election is over. YAY. I have become a Facebook addict over the past couple of months and someone sent me this "piece of flair". I have been having trouble thinking about what it really means. Yes, I know that Sarah Palin is pro-life and anti-abortion, but I see something very disturbing in this statement on, what should be, an innocent little button.

You see, when I read it, I see that people want to keep abortion legal for birth control use. This is not the rape/incest argument behind abortion, this is someone actually attempting to make a stand to say that they have the "right" to choose an abortion, aka: killing a baby, because they were irresponsible with their sexual activity. And yes, I know that people taking proper precautions still get pregnant, so I am not talking about that either. I am talking about the men and women who go about having sex with each other "in the moment" and then think it's ok because they have the right to choose abortion if they were to have a mistake pregnancy. I don't know, maybe I am rambling...I just found the dang button disturbing.


Friday, November 07, 2008

Insurance!

So, Scott and I have not had any medical insurance since February. It's not something that we could afford privately and Scott's employer did not have a group plan. We just sat back and prayed that nothing major happened to us to where we needed coverage!

Well, Scott's employer has offered to pay for our coverage!!! How awesome is that? God is so good to us. I tell ya...

Testing

I think that I figured out how to have my signature show up at the end of a post...let's see!!! Yep, it works!

Thursday, November 06, 2008

Surgery is scheduled

Eurodynamics: Nov. 14th
Pre-op: Nov. 18th, check into Ronald McDonald House
Surgery: Nov. 19th

Will be in the hospital 2-5 days, Lord willing.

Moved up from January. :-)

Speech Therapy and Stuff

We had a speech therapy eval today. The funny thing about it is that it was with the same SLP that did Ethan's vitalstim. The difference is that we had to really discuss and observe what types of communication assistance will work best for Ethan. I think overall, it was a good visit.

I am so tired today. Trying to not catch a cold. Ethan is trying too. His walking was superb yesterday! He walked everywhere showing off to people what he could do! It was so cute! Today, I think that he was sore! LOL! He didn't want to walk much.

Last night, I spoke at church about my experience from Africa. People said that I did a good job, so I hope that I did and they aren't just being nice. :-) I started my blog about Africa, but everytime that I go to add a picture, it adds the wrong one. It was beyond frustrating, so I stopped. It's a draft at the moment and I will get back to it eventually.

Today, I went to MOMS at church for the first time. It was so wonderful to be surrounded by such beautiful women. I can't wait to get to know them better.

Another Fletcher update

He is OFF of the vent!!!! OFF, OFF, OFF!!!! Still needing O2 and bi-pap at times, but OFF of the vent!!! Thank you GOD!!!

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Fletcher update


This is a seizure- it's like a firestorm in the brain


Cautiously optimistic. He is still on the vent, but agitated, so that is actually a good sign that he is still the fighter that we know he is. Please continue to pray for him! Thanks!

Mizungos!!!

Today was a busy one, I need a nap! Ethan had OT at 9. It went OK. He was a pistol. He was wanting to throw everything instead of focusing on his task. It wasn't until the OT put him, belly down, on a bouncy ball that he completed his task of shape sorting. Lil' stinker...

What he did do that was awesome was he walked across the entire room (big open space!) and just kept wanting to show off! His PT was so impressed! She asked when he started the walking and I said, "Oh, last week!". It was the coolest thing- he went to drop to the floor midway and then decided to keep going, so he actually bent down and pushed himself back up! That is huge!!! It was quite exciting.

I met with my Kenya bunkmates, aka: MIZUNGO'S, for lunch. I love these ladies. I was feeling down about a few things and they were what I needed to perk back up. Thank you, Mama Nancy, Amy (BFFK), Mama Donna, and Amy for such great company today.
(The locals in Africa call white people mizungo's, so we heard it a lot- LOL!)

After lunch, I was able to talk with Mark again- another Kenya BFFK. I love how God put all of these wonderful people in my path and that we all became close friends! We could have all had opposite personalities and looked forward to the time that we didn't have to spend 24/7 with each other, but not this group! I miss them all so much, so if I can talk to them on the phone or see them for lunch, I am beyond happy.

Ethan also had his endocrinologist appointment today. Big waste of my time, really. We had some blood drawn, but unless it shows that Ethan has a growth hormone deficiency, there really isn't anything else to look at for his lack of growth (hormonally anyway). Chances are that his lack of growth is due to the tethered cord, but I just wanted to make sure that there wasn't something else...this is Ethan we are talking about here after all.

I really don't care if Ethan is small. I just don't want there to be another underlying medical issue that we are missing. We, myself and the medical community combined, have placed hidden blame too many times before- I just want to have everything checked. If the blood test- which takes about 3 weeks to get the results- comes back positive for growth hormone deficiency, then we would have to decide whether or not to do injections. I am kind of thinking that unless he would need the shots to prevent further medical issues, we would opt out. But, I don't know enough about that yet to really make a concrete decision.

Since Scott got home early, I was able to go vote without taking Ethan with me. That was nice. Even nicer was the fact that I was in and out of the polling place in SEVEN MINUTES. Yeah, I rock.

Did ya, did ya???



My trusty sticker says so!

This day is FINALLY here!!!

Sunday, November 02, 2008

Lillian Update

Kamrin says that the surgery went well and that my dad is in Boston. I guess she didn't recognize him at first. :( That's about all I know, but still ask you to pray for her recovery. Thank you.

Walking Progress Video



I could not be happier with his progress lately. Can you imagine how he'll improve after his cord is detethered!??!!? WOW!

Saturday, November 01, 2008

Pray for Fletcher!!!

To all my prayer warriors, please:

My friend's son, Fletcher, has been put into a medical induced coma after a 5 1/2 hour seizure! He has now been put on a ventilator as well. The family were recently uprooted from NC to a very far away place with the military and have no support system where they are. This is serious folks, please, please, please pray for Fletcher's healing and for that darn seizure monster to leave him alone!!!

Thank you so much!!!
~Kristen